Friday, September 29, 2006
Be Certain
"Make statements not questions. It is too easy just to sit back and ask questions and not expose yourself to risk."
-Juggler
This is an old quote from his archives which is still very valid. While the initial conversation should be an organic exchange largely initiated by open-ended questions, what follows is an opportunity to put out a weakness (disqualify), reveal something interesting about your life ("I" perspective) or show your intent (SOI). These statements are the basis for attraction.
Be certain when making these statements, don't hestitate or seek approval of their "correctness". Use the power of the vacuum, physically (by dropping your facial expressions) and verbally: give her the opportunity to fill the void you artfully created.
Watch a politician give a speech, a senior manager recruit a graduate or your favorite James Bond in action. They make an impact with their statements. You have the power to make yours sexy as well as persuasive.
-Aero
Tuesday, September 26, 2006
Find a Role Model or 5
Success leaves traces in this world. Think about someone who is already getting what you are currently aiming for. What skills or traits have they developed to achieve this?
It could be the determination of Christian Bale to transform his body, from a 58kg ill-looking Machinist to the 85kg muscle-bound Batman.
The ability Juggler has to make the mundane fascinating.
The cool and confident character Vince Vaughn plays in his movies.
The dedication DJ Neil Armstrong holds to prove that good music doesnt have to be separated by gendre.
The strong beliefs Bruce Lee had when he was determined to change the face of Hollywood.
Above are just role models I relate to, we all know people who have desireable skills or traits. They may be our complete opposites, celebrities, from a different generation; it doesnt matter because you only want to emulate that small part of them you find attractive.
Mix and match, but keep your individual style: stay a first-rate version of yourself not a second-rate version of someone else.
-Aero
It could be the determination of Christian Bale to transform his body, from a 58kg ill-looking Machinist to the 85kg muscle-bound Batman.
The ability Juggler has to make the mundane fascinating.
The cool and confident character Vince Vaughn plays in his movies.
The dedication DJ Neil Armstrong holds to prove that good music doesnt have to be separated by gendre.
The strong beliefs Bruce Lee had when he was determined to change the face of Hollywood.
Above are just role models I relate to, we all know people who have desireable skills or traits. They may be our complete opposites, celebrities, from a different generation; it doesnt matter because you only want to emulate that small part of them you find attractive.
Mix and match, but keep your individual style: stay a first-rate version of yourself not a second-rate version of someone else.
-Aero
Friday, September 22, 2006
Know Yourself
This weekend I joined "Juggler" in London for his 2 day Seminar. To me he is the legend responsible for transforming my outlook on seduction. Turning what was once an effort to something fun, organic and even artistic.
Over the past year I've read a lot of what the community has to offer, probably too much but I've taken action, made changes and seen results. Juggler somehow made me realise that I overlooked what I know about myself.
In order to ask fat questions, you have to know yourself. You have to know how to answer that same fat question from the "I" perspective.
So before you go out there pushing demanding questions and vacuuming for information, think about how you'd answer them.
- Whats your passion in life?
- Whats your life story?
- Whats your relationship situation?
- Whats your family like?
- What kind of art do you do?
Describe where you are in your very own movie scene.
Make it captivating, use the "I" perspective, describe your answer with feelings people can relate to, bring out what is unique and interesting about you, reveal what is good and bad (disqualify), use details and keep it visual.
Finally make it punchy and end on a positive note, you'll see how much more quickly you are able to connect with women.
-Aero
